Yeah I can see your point on keeping myself from trusting. Honestly her actions the past month plus have really helped there, that and I just know in my heart that if she is hiding things with OM, if there is some sort of "oh we are jsut friends' I will end it no questions as I had put that boundary there when this whole 'reconnection' or what ever you want to call it started ... I said no more secrets and that was with OM, or any possible future OM2,3,4,you get the picture. Today .. TM a bit, telling me about her new boss and what he is doing, Mr Fixit is boxed up, I just STFU and listened, she is a Taurus and TM something about "The bull is out" with a wink , I TM back a pic of a real bull goring some poor dude. Things have been light and more 'fun' as of late ... still keeping things in check... this type of exchanges have not happened in years, she tells me about her day, asks about mine and seems actually interested. Again .. slow and steady here but I have not seen any red flags in a bit.
Are you referring to her perceptions? now I am curious about your curiosity.