I would be careful about telling her she cant go alone and it would be the death of the M. Not saying it would be true or not, but to her would appear as pressure and might push her toward that decision. Ultimately you cant control what she does, so try to resist trying to convince her on way or another, it doesn't come across the way we would like it too.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
