Hi Pink. Thanks for the kind post. Lots to post but I will try to keep it short
Last night D16 was at an award ceremony to recieve an award for French. It was held in the second biggest university in Ireland and s16 did not tell his mum we were going until last week When I got home to collect them to go W was.very upset that she wasn't going. When we left D10 was looking beautiful in her dress and S16 looking handsome in his uniform. I wore a dark blue suit that does look ok on me W burst into tears as we where leaving and told me a looked good
We went with D10' and it was a wonderful and inspiring evening. I really felt for W because it was somewhere she shoul have been When we got home W was watching a film with S20 and D14 was very upset because W has texted someone and told D14 it was Ws sister. D14 could see it wasn't. ( wasn't OM either) so called W a liar. S16 was very proud and showed W his medal and certificate. W asked me how it was and I told her fantastic I do appreciate she was. Sad she missed it so I got changed and went into front room for twenty mins before I went to bed. I said goodnight to S20 and W but she did not reply.
This morning I took D14 /and S16 to school as D10 was off today W called me about 11am and I was working on a forklift so couldn't take the call. I called her back 20 mins later and she was crying She said I was angry with her over D14 and the text. I said I wasn't but obviously I didn't like to see D14 upset and in future could she not text while with D14. She then told me she couldn't handle it all anymore and she was going back to the UK to live with her mum and dad.
I said ok and I would supply plane tickets once a mo th for her to visit kids for a weekend if that's what she wants. She then said her doctor had asked her to go on antidepressants as doc was worried about her. I offered to pay for her to see an I/C She then told me she had been talking to the smaritians because of her dark thoughts. She went on to say she had a terrible life now and felt she had nothing to live for.
I told her that she had to do what was best for her There was more talk but nothing important just more along the same lines.
So it seems lawyer not needed at the moment but we will see. Very tough to hear after yesterday's great day.
Pink. No private eye needed and W tells me she spends time with him so unless I catch them in bed ( which I couldn't handle ) he could spend every night at her flat Best to lleave that one as it a no win
I'm not to bad about them now but it does put an end to any R for me
