You don't. She is trying to assuage her guilt. She may love you, but is not interested in working on the relationship at this point in time. Don't pursue. Remain steadfast and true to your principles, without being judgmental or angry.
Kramer, Good advice! I will remain on my present course. I agree that STBX has expressed zero interest in working on our relationship (but MIGHT be softening) so it would be foolhardy for me to pursue her at this time.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
