Yes my head is spinning. This was totally unexpected.

I'm not gonna lie. A tiny part of me wanted to say "I told you so" to her, but of course I didn't.

She made the comment "I never thought I would be divorced at this stage in my life" again. I didn't say anything, but looked at her with an arched eyebrow and my head cocked to the side. She immediately started crying and said "yes, I know it's all my doing". I let her cry.

You're right, it is your doing.

Me M51
WW F46
T 17 yrs
M 16 yrs
9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17
8 grandchildren
ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14
I discover PA 12/31/14
She files D: 1/9/15
She moves out 3/2/15
D papers served 3/18/15