So I reply to STBX's above text about two hours later with:

"Yeah, I agree that really is the tragic part."

W replies immediately with:

"I love you. I hope you always know it."

I haven't replied and not sure I need to.

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15