I don't know if I did well or not, but I can honestly say that I gave it my best shot. We ran into each other at the gym this morning. Cordial conversation, but nothing in depth. She went to her house to shower afterward, and I showered at the gym and went to work.

My dilemma now is what to do next, and what not to do. I ansolutely do not want to persue, and I do not want to read too much into this. My initial thoughts are to remain dark, and let her initiate further contact. I have plans the next few nights, and I will keep those plans.

Whatever is going on in her life, she needs to deal with. I DO NOT want to become a friend or shoulder to cry on if she is having problems with her OM relationship.

Thoughts???


Me M51
WW F46
T 17 yrs
M 16 yrs
9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17
8 grandchildren
ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14
I discover PA 12/31/14
She files D: 1/9/15
She moves out 3/2/15
D papers served 3/18/15