I'm so sorry, Arcola -- I know that must've really stung. I may not have always (or even much) agreed with your approach, but the fact is you did FIGHT for your marriage, and you will always have that. I respect that, always.
You never know what the future holds. Moving on doesn't mean "giving up," either. Prepare yourself -- it's when they sense that you really HAVE moved on, that they often come back (ref.: that great scene from the movie "Swingers" . . . so true!).
