Just checked and she still has not opened or read the card... But still not tossed in trash either... This is a bit like CaliGuy has mentioned before -- almost like a science experiment to be observed.
Another observation is that she remains in monster mode right now despite the fact that I am moving out soon and she will have the life and freedom she thinks she wants. I expected she would be overjoyed when I told her I had signed a lease but her attitude has not improved and almost seems worse at times. The good news is that her mood and attitude don't affect me very much if at all now. I know this has more to do with junk going on inside of her than anything I am doing or not doing -- if that wasn't apparent before, it is very apparent now with the impending move.
No other updates right now. Just lots of "to do"s to get done before I am able to move in to the new place at the beginning of next month.
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015