Ripken - LRT with a WW and divorce filed #3

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Another update. Yesterday seemed to go ok. A nice stress free day. Came back to the house after work and had to take sons to oldest son school choir concert. Ww and I found out oldest I going to skip a grade in math so celebrated that proud parenting moment.

Had some moments of small talk and laughter at the concert and home after. Pretty lighthearted and it felt nice. About 8pm as kids were getting settled down I left to go meet some friends and watch a game. Already told ww I would be doing so Monday.

This morning as she's getting ready she was in a mood. She left without any interaction when the last three days she intentionally came in to do so. Also she packed her overnight bag with a change of clothes, perfume and sexy underwear. Wonder what she's doing tonight?

So I just texted her and asked if she was planning on coming back after work tonite. She said she might grab drinks, not sure. Told her I'm trying to communicate with her. If she goes out, she does. Nothing I can do about it. But I didn't know she was gone Tuesday and feels like I wouldn't have known today.

She responded "I came back by 6:30pm. If I do, I would let you know. You make plans, mine tend to be on a whim. Sorry . . ."

Just told her "thanks for letting me know. I appreciate that."

The open communication is not there. And when she tells me earlier that my distance and essentially going dark make her question whether or not I give a [censored] about anything regarding her, I tried to be more open to small talk and jokes. Yesterday and Tuesday seemed good. Now it feels like she's going to bang om just to punish me.