H did not ask me about Mother's day cards for his sisters, I did not offer.
H went out to purchase me an outfit he picked out for Mother's day- this was a change because he HATES shopping. He was asking me day before, what I wanted, I told him "don't worry" about it, he told me I was a great mom and deserved a gift.
Granddaughter bday this weekend, I ask H about how much he wanted to spend on a gift, he started getting huffy, so I told him nevermind dont worry about it. I went out and got a gift myself.
Sooo,,,when I realiazed I forgot grandson bday which was yesterday...
I did NOT remind H, but I did contact SD & grandson (felt a little guilty about not reminding H, I MIGHT remmind him today)
H has been sleeping in the basement again: here are some reasons he has given, he will say these things in passing when I'm leaving for work and he is on his way into bedroom (I HAVE NOT ask)"you keep it too cold in the room", "I like to sleep with TV on", "I have a bad tooth ache, going to sleep in lounger". H has been back in the basement for about 2 weeks now, not each day, but when he does come to bedroom its like 4am. No comments made from me to him, just an observation I'm making here.
On the weekends he comes to bed a little earlier like 2am.
Now he does work 2nd shift gets home around 12:30/1am, then eats and watches TV in basement?
Update on Me: I'm doing better, still working hard on losing this weigh I gained by stress eating!!!! S14 is doing great, ready for summer break.
I'm still TIRED of this mess, but keeping my mouth shut and focused on me and s14. Looking forward to summer.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
