The reality of the situation is at this point the only one who can stop the process is her.
Although the no expectations/realistic side of me is hoping for best while preparing for the worst.
I think the thing that helped me is to let her do all the heavy lifting of the divorce and it truly was her divorce.
Maybe that did not help with my detachment, however I can look back with the rest of my life and know that I did every thing possible to try to save it.
