Hi Zephyr,

Curious - do you ever try to initiate affection with your W the way she has been with you? Spontaneous, loving...doesn't sound like she's cringing anymore. Us girls like a bit of pursuit of we're into you.

When is that disclosure session, or has it been scheduled?

Thinking of you buddy.


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.