Curious - do you ever try to initiate affection with your W the way she has been with you? Spontaneous, loving...doesn't sound like she's cringing anymore. Us girls like a bit of pursuit of we're into you.
When is that disclosure session, or has it been scheduled?
Thinking of you buddy.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on