Hi she is not feeling "it" anymore

[Mrrch]

I do a lot of the work (don't really mind)
I get the kids ready for school,make lunches.
She gets them to school and picks them up.
Housing cleaning is 50/50
I usually do groceries with the kids.
I have stopped doing her business groceries ( she bakes)
I have stopped helping her bake.
I have stopped washing her dishes for her business.
I only do my laundry and the kids laundry.
I enjoy spending time with the kids.
I had given up a lot of my hobbies but have been getting back into them.
I have detached I think, gone dark,not being so available.
I will answer texts with quick answers.
I say thank you when it is called for (she made dinner last night)
I can say I got caught up in appeasing her requests (ie get me a drink,do my laundry,pick this up for me,take care of this cake pickup,clean my dishes)