Yup...where I live that's how it works. I'm not in the US btw
Kids know we're getting divorced, we had an argument in front of kids 8 wks ago. But now they think everything's ok since mom and dad are living under one roof again and things are back to normal. Anyway, H came home late from work last night. I made a cup of coffee (he likes to drink coffee before going to bed) at the dining table before I went up to bed (I usually wait up for him..not anymore...doing a 180 on that). Came home and looked for me to say thank you and gave me hug. Felt good. I wish he would give me more of that. Hoping he'd change his mind...but I'm still acting as if. Only God knows what's in my heart right now.