Yeah, keep it up Heavy. I also struggle with the going dark and interaction. The worried about being in friend zone vs. being a dick.
I have seen (and need to do much more of it) when I am busy and GAL, I am happier and naturally able to be dark. Not because I chose to, because it's what I'm supposed to do or to get back at her. Just because I'm not available, I'm having fun - as much as I can.
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
