I have read by many here the only chance I have is thorugh "tough love", going dark, GAL, moving on, not enabling her, let the consequences fall on her, not doing stuff for her, not answering inconsequential texts or calls (unless about kids) etc..."
It feels like punishment from me - you know, "the angry controlling one" - "see you can't make it without me" and I don't want that perception at all. Won't she think that I am being even more controlling and calling all the shots?
