Caliguy,

Yes, I agree with not focusing on OW. Just trying to confirm there is active A to know what I am up against. Active A will be much harder than if he would be in withdrawal stage.

Back to detaching, GAL, 180s, and LRT.

Just hard to not get sucked back in to cycle with positive words by H. Need to work on my self and reactions as when I feel I am doing LRT my H thinks I am grumpy or mad at him. He is being very sensitive when I pull back.


Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015