Thats good mobile. Don't take blame. Blame forms resentment. Try to accept it, live and learn. From that process it will be easier to validate her position, bc you will meet it with something other than blame/resentment.

Validation needs to be your go to move!

Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015