Whoa there girl! First thing, you love him. Right now, how is he repaying that love? Walking out on you. What a guy. Reading your thread, you seem like a good woman, with real soul, so why should he destroy that in you? As I said earlier, he can't have the good stuff, and leave when he thinks he needs something else.
This detaching/180/LRT thing is hard, but the thing I have learned really quickly in the week I have been here is that you have to maintain a sense of self. If my wife walked in on me naked now, would I want her - you bet, would she deserve my love - no way.
As we LBS's, we have done nothing wrong. It hurts. That will stop and be replaced by anger (with hurt rubbed in) but if our W/H want us back, it is now going to take a little more than naked attraction. Hope that doesn't seem harsh, just a rule of how I'm feeling right now.
That fog thing I was on about is in the WW/MLC section.
Right. Tulo, you are a strong person. Everybody who calls in is right behind you. We're all scared/hurt. We're going to get through this. If our W/H's come back, great - if not IT'S THEIR LOSS.
Keep strong and look after yourself!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
