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[bravo61]

Thanks Z.

So S told me that twice in the last month XW has cussed at him. Once she told him to "get your [censored] & get in the car". And on Mother's Day "that was a dumbass move". The woman I married would NEVER do something like that. Doing my best not to call her & cuss her out. This place is Gamorrah and she's loving it here.

I waited until the next day until I was calm to address this with her.

She said she doesn't remember "anything of the kind happening".
My response: I let him know that if it happened that you love him and sometimes adults get stressed out (especially dads) but you would never intentionally hurt his feelings. Just thought you should know.

A couple hrs later, she asked if I wanted them on one of her nights when she has to work. Um, hell yeah.


I have to say, without going through this crap and the work I've put in, I would've been a monster to her about something like that. I would've berated her, criticized her, and questioned her as a parent. Now, I'm still upset but reacting in that manner would just make things worse.

She may not care or even notice the difference, but I feel better about myself for it.