Hi she is not feeling "it" anymore

[Mrrch]

She hasn't said the word divorce only that our marriage is over.
She said from day 1 she did not believe in divorce.
Me 44
She 33
Together 14 years
Married 8 this June
Daughter 7
Son 5
She says our split should be amicable.
Our daughter has a friend whose parents split and seem to get along so she says we should be like that as well.