I had fun hitting balls last night. Had a good talk with a friend.
I think W is very confused right now. She says something different every few days. I have been polite and upbeat around her. Last night, I did take a walk. I also wonder if she is talking about moving because she thinks I don't care because I have been busy GAL. I have invited her to join me, but she never does. The one thing that has always happened in our relationship is kinda like a stand off. In the past, when we fight she will give me the cold shoulder and start the drama till I say I am sorry and try to smooth things over. It may be mind reading to think that is what is going on now.
I have tried to work on our marriage for the past year. I got no where. It wasn't till I got here and started doing things different, that I noticed a change. I am working on ME and trying to better myself. I am leaving W alone to do her thing.
My horoscope said that I should may be giving the impression that I don't care. That someone may be confused about my intentions. Said I shouldn't be saying nothing and letting everyone draw their own conclusions. I should be open and honest about my intentions. This got the wheels turning in my head of course. Is this someway of someone saying that it is time for the "Dobson Letter"? Sometimes I am not sure how to proceed. I am pretty good at doing nothing.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"