I have improved my cordial and politeness skills when I talk or interact with her. I don't ask asny questions just answer questions she may have or will chuckle if her comment is funny. I have Sandi's 37 bullet points taped to my wall.
One thing I have learned is that when she spews or makes a mean comment, I ignore it, try not to take it personally and say something nice on top of it. It's like I bury the negativity with positivity. I have noticed when I do that, it gets good results and stops anymore negative talk.
No word from Lawyers, court, anything, that front is completely dark.
