I know you're going through some really tough times. I do. I've been there. The only way through is through.
But I'd like to point something out. Something that might help you and your girls out down the road.
Originally Posted By: Matt165
I wasn't going to tell her mother that she was cutting herself unless I knew she was. Simply because her mother would over react and make things worse. Now, if I KNEW she was I definitely would have told her.
Maybe I'm wrong, but I'm pretty sure you knew she was cutting herself. And assuming you know how her mother would react ... is just that, an assumption.
Think about this: Everything your STBXW spewed at you? Is true. To her. From her point of view.
Not saying it's right. Oh no. Not my point.
My point is that the truth is probably somewhere in the middle.
Look, your daughter needs help. From both of you. You're gonna have to put aside your differences for a moment to get her the help she needs.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
