Thx Rick and BA. It only takes one! I met SDA Lady online and although it didn't work out I'll never regret having shared that relationship with her. Any lady I've met I've enjoyed the experience whether it went any further or not. When a lady says "it ain't there" I'm cool with it...but usually they don't, you end up having to figure it out yourself. Anyway, onwards and upwards. I think I'll chill for a bit...I've had enough nonsense for one month lol.