Hi Toots Yes W is going through menopause for the last 18 months W has also said she thinks she is going through MLC or a breakdown.
W has had a lot of problems due to menopause and ones that would not encourage an active sex life.
Also L/C has told me that's drunks like OM have had years of councelllors are are able to pick up on unhappy people and get them on their side as it were
All this started when W told me she no longer want a sex life but wanted us to remain a married couple and grow old together. I did not handle the sitch well at all and basically told her that we should split
Toots , I am very hung up on OM and that put the nail in the coffin for me I'm not able to get over it so I must move on. I have tried to see it through a neutrals eyes and some days I can but going forward Im not sure I can mange my trust issues with anyone.
I will look for the books you suggested and thank you. I have my circle of advisers that help me and all of them are telling me to stand for the M I will give it the month and see what I'm feeling then
Re the financial side it's very difficult because W is the mother of my kids and was My best friend for a long time I suppose I will be there as best I can
