Jim0987 #13 - Its life Jim, but not as we know it

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Hi Jim, I also think that sounds pretty positive - and nice for your D4 that you were both able to do that - bless her!!

I hear what you are saying about 'arctic comparisons' but I agree with RD, the overall trend is a good one - albeit gentle and slow - but the direction of travel is positive. And as you say, a massive difference from even just a few months ago.

Who knows what that may ultimately mean for your sitch, but in coparenting terms it's positive for sure. Good that you were able to have a chat with PF too. That will all get fed back to your W of course. I trickle things to people who are in contact with H, and I imagine he gets to know about them and sees me as coping and maybe thriving.

Why do you question some of the choices you are making at the moment? It sounds to me like you are making good choices. You're doing well at GAL, and I think that benefits us so much in the longer term. I realise I had become quite insular and family focused - to the detriment of maintaining and building friendships. I don't want to let that happen again and I think that's a positive no matter what.

Glad you are on the mend - yoga and ceroc again soon maybe. Take care Jim. You are a great guy and I so often appreciate your insight on these boards. I think you have come a long way. Take care (((Jim)))