Just had a nice dinner with one of the stepchildren. He and I had a lengthy conversation about things. He was concerned about me and is still upset with his mom. I really enjoyed talking with him, although some of the information I received has caused me to reconsider my thoughts of reconciliation.

Apparently she has had OM and his children over for dinner, and they are all over each other. He brought video games for the kids and my wife and him had drinks and deep conversations. She is dressing differently and acting differently in order to impress him. Apparently she is highly upset and angry whenever my name is mentioned. That was painful to hear, although not entirely surprising.

So it looks like she is still deep into this relationship. I had hoped that I was seeing a thaw, but apparently not. All I can do is continue to detach and work on me, and wait for divorce to become final.


Me M51
WW F46
T 17 yrs
M 16 yrs
9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17
8 grandchildren
ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14
I discover PA 12/31/14
She files D: 1/9/15
She moves out 3/2/15
D papers served 3/18/15