Going on another date with my spouse this week. I am so confused about what he is thinking. He doesn't do anything that would make me think he is considering us workig things out. But he isn't rude either. But his "I'm so sad" texts have stopped and he seems to be happier. I am trying to focus on the fact that a few months ago he was spewing hate towards me , and now at least he will spend the weekend with us, and act kindly toward me when he is here. But every now and then he will mention something about the future and it is clear that in his mind, in the future we will not be together. So why are we even going through the motions of "dating"? I am trying not to read into it. But it does hurt my feelings.
Me:30 H:31 D1 T: 7 years M: 3.5 years BD: 12/2014 3 month S starts: 2/2015
