HD - I think you're letting your W have too much real-estate in your head. I think you're taking things too personally --- and I know it's hard not to. I agree with the poster who said that W is reflecting her problems back on you. My IC has said similar things to me as well.
Hello Heavy,
I haven't been on the board much the last few days, but I sure have been thinking about you. I loved what Calibri posted to you -- especially what I quoted above. I am not an IC, but I firmly believe that your W is reflecting her problems back on you. My IC has also said that to me about my WAW. If you recall, she has MS and was unhappy with her life because of the disease.
OMG! I don't recall seeing you post about your S being a cancer survivor. What an emtionally draining time that must've been for both of you. It shows me how resilient you are!! You can make it thru this but I feel it's still going to take more time that you would like.
You are such a loving soul, and I understand how badly you want to R with your W. Keep fighting for your M as long as you feel you want to!
*Hugs*
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
