I'm good, TLEE. Joined a D support group at a mega church (I've yet to tell them I'm an agnostic heathen) and that is a help. Lots of GAL, getting on with my life. H is still not getting his things or signing.

Why does a hostile spouse drag things out when there is no argument over the tangibles, no kids and no desire to work things out?

Sorry I've droped off board - trying to put more energy into the practical urgencies of life lately and am a bit too cynical to contribute much of anything good wink


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.