Hi she is not feeling "it" anymore

[Mrrch]

I had started the 180 already when she told me last week. She moved downstairs to the spare bedroom, said she understood if I wanted to go stay somewhere else. No thank you , I am not leaving our kids or our house. I've been busy getting a life back, no more being a door mat,helping her with anything and everything. She had a gastric bypass last September and has lost 100 pounds and looks fabulous and has her energy back. We had a pretty over the top sexual relationship with typical high and low frequencies. Noticed a lot of selfies on Facebook and Instagram that was drawing the wrong kind of attention, then the sexting again.