Originally Posted By: mahhhty
I wish we would talk about something real. Instead all I see is a facade. I truly believe that I don't know this person.

Alas... Our conundrum.
Hello mahhhty,

In your post from yesterday, you thanked me and several others. You're most welcome.

It sounds like you had a good weekend -- good you for my man!

I am sorry to hear that yesterday didn't go better. A conundrum is right. I know EXACTLY what you mean about not knowing your XW. I feel the same way about my STBX.

As hard as it is, please try to focus on yourself and your children. Refocus, you've done it some many times before.

Take care -

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15