Okay DB family. Here is my situation. I have been calling attorneys trying to get in to see one. Nobody has returned my calls. I had 2 email me back and say they can't take my case right now. I took this as a sign that it was not time to get a attorney involved. I started to think maybe I was getting in God's way.
Everytime I say something to W about golf, she freaks out and starts her moving to California stuff. Happened again today. I asked if she wanted to go hit a few balls with the kids. Of course she didn't. So I said I was going and I would take the kids if they want to go. And I got the text about figuring out a schedule for the kids to go see her this summer and what all she has to do before she goes and gets her house. It seems like whenever I say anything about golf or doing something like that she goes right back to explaining her plans. It is weird.
Anyway, I am calling as many attorneys as I can till I find someone that can help me. So far from what I have been reading, in these types of things where parents live in different states, the court would consider the place they reside now and have lived to be better a place for the majority of the time. I have the house, my job of 10 years, I pay all the bills and I spend more time with them. Plus I don't have a phone sex job!!! I know W is going to put pressure on D to come live with her. She has grown up here and has all her friends here.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
