Well i was a littel slow on the uptake so have jsut caught up with your thread.
It feels a bit late to weigh in on much of this but i do fully get the frustration that comes from those occassions when we have expectations of consideration that arent met when in truth they arent anything that is beyond the consideration we would should an aquaintance.
But zues was right we can all see your value.
I hope you're having a good day
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress