I'm glad you had a good couple of days in the office. sounds like the new job is going well
Its virtually impossible to compete with complete fantasy but your side of the street is looking pretty darn good so enjoy it so if your H ever does realise he's chasing a fantasy, then he is going to pretty quickly know where he should have been all along.
In the meantime keep being marvellous
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress