Hi Toots Sometkmes I wish I could talk to people instead of reading a post because my impression. Is that you are a wee bit down I'm proberbly wrong but I shall continue with my post ! ! I feel positive for you because your H ( like others ) seems to be looking for something. / someone to bring him happiness
You are standing and that really positive. If in doubt , do nothing, wait and see what happens
H will have to come out of the chesseless tunnel o me day and when he does he will be a lucky man if Toots is still waiting