Sandi, thank you so much for stopping by. Maybe I explained myself poorly. What I meant by goals were, as MWD puts it in chapter 3 of DR, behavioural signs that changes are happening. 'If my W starts to believe our marriage is salvageable, what will she start doing differently?' The goals were action-oriented and small ones. And from this perspective I can say I definitely see some improvement. Does this make sense or have I understood everything in a wrong way?
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Me43 W39 M 12y,T 15y S09,S07 Bomb Jun14 Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15 Share bed Mar/May15 Reconcile Jun15 Aug15 W sais D will happen D told to kids Sept15 W moved out with kids 01 October15
