Ripken - LRT with a WW and divorce filed #3

[Ripken8]

Drew - I appreciate the feedback. Since I've asked last night - the only responses I've received are from you, fogg and cadet. Each essentially saying - don't move out of the house and let the lawyers handle it. These decisions have already been made, can't stay in the house. I'm not trying to be argumentative, but the response I've gotten haven't really helped me answer the questions I've been asking.

What I'm not hearing is how to communicate and interact with her. Go dark or help her with the process? Get respect or communicate and have relationship of any kind? If I help with the process, aren't I just stopping any DB techniques and supporting her decision to divorce, creating a self fulfilling prophecy I don't want?

Again, I have no desire for divorce and don't want it. However I also don't want the house and the extra costs of having it. Selling it seems to make financial sense for both of us and wouldn't this be separate from helping her with the divorce? Otherwise I'm worried I stick my head in the sand, do nothing and she builds up more resentment, still moves forward with divorce and hurts me more financially