One of the things that's been really interesting to me is realising how introverted I am. I'm not the classic "prefers to stay at home and read a book" introvert so didn't identify with that classic example. Actually, I'm pretty outgoing and enjoy bouncing around ideas with other people rather than being left to my own devices. But I'm not comfortable being the centre of attention (at least when the focus is me personally; I'm totally fine speaking in front of people on an area of my expertise). I prefer to get to know people over a coffee with groovy music in the background, rather than out at a big party with loud music in the foreground (concerts are another matter). This time alone has definitely helped me see my introverted tendencies in a new light. I realise I have a rich inner world going on upstairs. It probably explains why I was content to just dabble away on my computer or whatever.
Hi I'm Jim and this ^^^^^ describes me pretty much perfectly
what i have found though is that opening up a little bit, and in truth not a huge amount has really opened up some more human connections for me, I think Brene Brown would say i've shown some vulnerability. Its still really uncomfortable mind.
Originally Posted By: gan
And I think that's the crux of it really - different expectations
a sentence which seems to sum up so many of the issues that get describe round these parts.
and one thats so easily resolved by some effective communication - If only i knew that sooner......
so is Uganda work or holiday?
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
