Maybe it's just me but it seems like you come on here asking for advice, people give it to you to the best of their ability, and then you come back with a bunch of reasons why you think you should do something different. Which is fine. It's your life. You ultimately need to do what you think is best.
But it might be why you're not getting as much feedback.
Just my $.02
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