Lucy, Take all the time you need to digest what is going on. Each poster has to move at their own pace. However, while you are digesting this information, you definitely need to protect your finances. If I'm correct, he's going to be spending money very quickly not only on himself, but her as well.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
