"Guys is there any way I can stop this divorce from happening?"
No. Sorry but that's the brutal, honest answer. If your W wants to D you, then there's nothing you can do. With that being said, you CAN do things that might persuade her otherwise.
You've been at this for a few months. For my W and I, it took over 3 years before she even THOUGHT about even being nice to me. How much can YOU take?
"I need help from the vets: Goals? 180s? How to detach? I feel hopeless like there is no way I can do this."
Everyone's told you what to do. Goals, 180s, detachment. All you want to do is talk. But you don't do anything about it. That's the problem. People telling you to set goals, do a 180, GAL, etc. but you not implementing them.
And I understand your anxiety disorder. I really do. But NO ONE can help you until you start helping yourself.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
