H is 'quieter' & distant. Probably realizes that I am not falling for anything. He is 'careful. Tries to conceal rage. 'Also wanted favor recently (the proposal comes w/some risk). Feels entitled - expectation of me is like that of a spouse b/c it serves this particular need/purpose. We're NOT, we are roommates ... I am 'expected' to (conveniently) oblidge (but am NOT afraid to say "no" this time whenever sitch comes up)
H was more communicative yesterday - dont know why. Was less so today. Has other things on his mind including work which is proving to be more challenging than hoped.
I am also beginning to suspect that accomdation options may not working out as planned either - but will see in June, early July. (See what happens when 'party animals' have to sacrafice for each other? )
pbetra ---- M: 15 yrs (in 2014) BD: 6/03/2014 Infidelity ('known' from July 2014) Denied PA Feb 2015 2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact. Back briefly 2017 (after family death) Separated 2017
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