"(a lot like how I felt when I found out she was sneaking in to my apt. and taking things)."
Do you mean the time you allowed her to take her things out and then you tried to control what she could take?
"I feel like I'm in a place of acceptance."
I don't think so. It sounds more like a place of resignation. There is a way for you to save your M, but I do feel like sometimes you'd rather verbally spar than listen. Even in terms of you wanting an "aggressive" L, it sounds like you want to punish her.
It comes out alot in the tone of your posts.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
