She texted back and said that I would be giving up huge returns on selling the house. It would pay for our kids education.

"You don't trust me?"

I am delaying at risk of huge financial cost

won't be good for the kids to move mid year

Please reconsider for the kids and to take advantage of hot market.

don't listen to your family, they just want to hurt me. Bad for kids. Are you listening because you want to punish me?


I replied:

I respect your wishes but this is not what I want.

I don't get it. Why does this hurt so much? I knew this would happen. I tried to prepare for it. Why??