Pink's Journey # 2

[Sotto]

Hi Pink, I agree with most of what you posted above. However, I also believe that your H may well still love you and that he may well turn around one day and ask to reconcile. And I don't say that to get your hopes up in any way. I completely agree with all that you say about making your own plans. I'm trying to do the same and I think it's a good way to go.

I agree with what RD posted. And I'm not trying to defend your H either. But I don't think he is thinking clearly at all and I expect that may well change at some point. BUT - and it is a big but. When (or if) will that be? When will your (or my) H realise that they plan to D women who are good people, beautiful and who love them? Will they realise? We just don't know. And judging from current behaviour from both our H's - possibly not any time soon.

So because of all of that, and because we value ourselves, we need to make our own plans and seek our own happiness. We've both come a long way in the past year, and we have a long way to go too - with or without our H's - but I have no doubt we'll get there. I look forward to hearing about your lovely plans.

xx