Don't Look Back 1

[Maybell]

Sunny, I'm sorry if you felt pressured by me. It's not so much that I thought you should divorce, as that I felt like it hadn't all sunk in on you what he had done. It's easy to overlook that I had 9 months of watching my marriage go down the tubes in slo-mo before I even found DB where yours has been shorter.

Like you I trusted my STBX to do the right thing financially. Which he has more or less done; nothing has gone unpaid, I'm not on short strings, etc. But as time goes by he's been thinking more about his life, living financially the way he wants to, running up the credit cards as though four other people don't rely on his income, and disregarding that our needs amount to anything. I am very anxious to get my financial house in order and I can't do that with Don Juan over there impressing the ladies with marital funds. If your H's affair sizzles out that could be the direction things take and I'd like you to be in better position should that occur. I don't mean to pressure you, though, your risk is probably smaller.

I can't believe you replaced the plate, though. It should have stayed lost.

Hugs!!!