Hi Sunny. Always glad to chime in but I don't have any say sad ice just support.
I do get where your coming from but you are early in the stages of this looking at others sitchs. As I posted to Pink this is all about time. I know what you mean about your heart hardening but is it really or are you just tired of the percived actions of H ?
If you read some of the success stories on here the perception of the WAS and their thinking was completely wrong.
For example , the tyre episode , when I first read that I was appalled , I could t belive that he didn't come back to change the tyre for you , then you posted you drove to the garage ! !!!! So tyre wasn't flat but low If you H got the impression it was low and not flat then I understand his attitude
You have no idea how your H is feeling or what he is thinking. , could be be leaving you to your own devices hoping you'll ask him for help , could be just be just doesn't care. Out of the two which is right , who knows maybe neither but we do know that while H may not be in love with you at the moment but he still has feelings no matter what he says and he would not see you desperately stuck
Glad you giving it time and I think letting go of the outcome is the key.
